My punishment of many years

Wonder how I have managed to put up with this for so long. Absolutely lacking in common sense, unwilling to take resposibility, always retorting to a question with a counter question and the list continues. Nothing comes through nothing registers. But abundantly endowed with ego. I would have understood if he said that he did not hear me but time and again he insists that I did not say it! God bless his soul and pray I get more patient to tolerate this. Patient, I must be, because it has been at least 15 years of this!